Nikki 10/14/26 Nikki 10/14/26

Reading With ADHD: Let The Book Work For You

Half-read books on your nightstand? Learn why reading with ADHD feels hard, why audiobooks count, and how one idea can be enough.

Nikki 9/30/26 Nikki 9/30/26

The Unreliable Narrator: Why You Can’t Always Trust Your Own Account

You'd swear you already sent that email. A look at why ADHD makes for such a shaky witness to its own behavior, and three ways to get a clearer picture than memory alone can offer

Nikki 9/16/26 Nikki 9/16/26

Why Knowing What to Do Was Never the Missing Piece

Knowing what to do was never the missing piece. A look at the two different engines that can start the same task, why only one lasts, and what changes once you find it.

Nikki 6/30/26 Nikki 6/30/26

Stop Asking What’s Wrong With You. Start Asking What Room You’re In.

You're not broken. You're contextual. And once you understand that difference, everything about how you approach the hard stuff starts to shift.

Melissa Bacheler 4/30/26 Melissa Bacheler 4/30/26

The Real Problem with Your To-Do List

What if the reason it feels like your to-do list keeps defeating you has nothing to do with discipline—and everything to do with one thing nobody told you to plan for?

Reading With ADHD: Let The Book Work For You

The Unreliable Narrator: Why You Can’t Always Trust Your Own Account

Why Knowing What to Do Was Never the Missing Piece

Stop Asking What’s Wrong With You. Start Asking What Room You’re In.

The Real Problem with Your To-Do List

You Don’t Have to Figure This Out Alone

Every Thursday I write about what's actually true about living with ADHD, and what actually helps. No performance. No pressure. Nothing to catch up on.